My Divorce Makes Me Feel Like a Failure I really thought my marriage would be forever. Everyone around me has long-standing marriages. My parents have been married for 45 years and they are still in love. I can’t seem to shake my feelings of being a failure. Jolyn Hi Jolyn,
How Do I Find the Perfect Attorney when My Ex Has a Shark? I am in the beginning process of separation. My ex has a shark of a lawyer. I need one too, but don’t know where to begin. It would be an understatement to say I am scared to
Going to Court Scares Me, How Can I Cope? Susan, I have never been to court, not even traffic court, so the idea of going to court scares me to death. Help!!! Sherrie Hi Sherrie, Wow, you have never been to court. Good for you. I think the most recent
My Ex Is Stalking Me Despite Being Divorced Several Years My ex and I have been divorced for five years. He STILL tries to get information about me from my children, and successfully, I might add. It feels to me like my ex is stalking me. How can I stop
What Do I Do When Children Co-Sleep and Climb Into My Bed? Susan: My children are 10 and 12 – two girls. Since their dad and I split, my youngest wants to sleep in my bed at night. At first, I let her do it but its been five months
Moving Forward After a Contentious Divorce Hi Susan, I like your site and was excited for your workbook to come out because I knew it would help me. My divorce took seven years to finalize. During those long years, my life was turned upside down so many times. It’s over so I
What Is the Most Important Thing You Can Do After a Splitting Up? Dear Susan, My husband and I just split up. If there is one thing you could advise me to do what would it be? Thanks, Velvet Hi Velvet, That’s a huge question. There is not one single thing
How Can You Go on after an Unexpected Divorce? Hi Susan, My husband and I were married 37 years. Six months ago, he told me on a typical Saturday morning, while having breakfast, that he was not happy with me, had met someone else two years ago and was moving
Navigating Threats and Nasty Emails Hi Susan, I am very scared of my ex-husband. He has threatened to take our children away from me. Every day he threatens me and sends me emails cussing me out and everything. I know you had a rough divorce. Maybe you can give me
